Putting God First

There are two things that have been on my mind for a while now.
They are very short and simple

A lot of times, when we face situations – good or bad – we don’t turn to God. At least not first. We’ll first bitch about our problems, or talk about our celebrations to people.

I’m very guilty of this. Whenever anything happens to me, the first 2 people that hear about it are Gbemisoke and Ibukun. Then God.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t have people to confide in but God should be number one.

A lot of us only turn/pray to God on two occasions. The first is when bad things happen. When nothing seems to be going right. That’s when you’ll see us. Going to church. Going to pastor. Going for vigils. Staying up all night to pray. The second is when good things are happening. We were promoted at work. We passed an exam etc etc. We will tell everybody about our testimony. Do thanksgiving ceremony. Tell our pastors. Tell everybody we can think of.

But what of the times in between bad and good times. When things aren’t hot or cold. When things are just lukewarm. We wouldn’t always be up and down. There’ll be plateaus. What do we do in our (spiritual) plateaus. We have to hold on to God every time.
Pray without ceasing. Pray in all seasons. Pray. Pray. Pray. Every time. Every season. Every day. Without stopping.

Grace and Peace



John 1:1-5: ‘In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through Him all things were made; without Him, nothing was made that had been made. In Him was life, and that life was the light of mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.


Another version says: ‘… and the darkness has not understood it.’


My favourite version of this verse is KJV: ‘… and the light shineth in the darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.


Most times, when we are going through problems and bad situations, we don’t look up to God. We just focus on how bad everything is going. We forget that we ‘have someone to call upon in times of trouble’.


The word of the Lord is binding. it comes to pass. It is strong. We have to trust in God’s words and promises to us. Live in faith.

The writer of Hebrews says in chapter 11 that ‘faith is the confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see’.


What you do not and cannot see should not blind you to God’s promises in your life.


The Message version of the bible puts John 1:1-5 as the Word was first, the Word present to God, God present to the Word. The Word was God, in readiness for God from day one. everything was created through Him; nothing – not one thing – came into being without Him. What came into existence was Life, and the Life was Light to live by. The Life-Light blazed out of the darkness; the darkness coud not put it out.


John 1;14 says: ‘… and the Word became Flesh’.


Jesus is the Word of God. Jesus was with God in the beginning of the world. He was there when everything was created and nothing was created that He did not know about. He knows YOU. He knows of existence. He knows your problems. He knows the challenges and difficulties you’re going through.


You have to trust in Him. In His omnipotence, omnipresence and omniscience,


Speak the word of God into your life. Use the Word as a prayer. There is power in the Word of God.


Psalm 138:2 says ‘… for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name’. God has made His words to us even greater than the power of His name..



In John chapter 1, it says: in Him was life and that life was the light of mankind.

The light

Jesus is the Light. To show you the way. To lead you.

Don’t run around blindly when you have God.



Let God light up your life. Shine for God.


The light shines in the darkness and the darkness cannot overcome it. the darkness cannot understand it. It cannot comprehend the light. The light(Jesus) has overcome darkness(sin).


You can’t do anything. God can do everything. Jesus said to His disciples: ‘I am the vine, you are the branches, …, apart from me you can do nothing’

When Jesus died for our sins, he brought light into our lives. Darkness cannot overrule light. When there is light, there is no darkness. Light spreads into every corner of your life when God is involved.



basically, we have to understand that we have the word of God in us, with us and it is there to work for us. If we choose to use it. Psalm 50:15 says; ‘call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me’

God is ever ready to listen to you. He hears you when you call.


So trust in His promises


Week 6: 100 Questions

This has been the most unproductive week of my life. I’ve done absolutely nothing of effect in/to my life.

Apart from house chores, I don’t think I did anything else.

My life is much of a mess right now. I don’t know what direction anything is going but it’s cool. God has been there, He’s still there.

I was supposed to go for a wedding yesterday (Saturday) but the tailor hadn’t done the dress and he wasn’t around 😦

I remember that I forgot to put what I’ve been watching and reading in my Week 5 post. So I’ve watched Brave, Inception this movie is mind fuckery and I think he was still dreaming in the end. Complete season 1 and 2 of Hustle and episodes 1 and 2 of season 3. Hustle is mad. Due Date I almost died. Silent Hill 2: Revelation didn’t really like it. I prefer the first Silent Hill. Ted very funny. The Girl From The Naked Eye I don’t get the point. I’m currently watching Skyfall.

I’m still reading Pride and Prejudice and I’ve added The Bro Code

There’s no gist this week and I’ve been saving this 100 questions post(which I saw on kemi’s blog for when I need it. Which is now.

I was thinking of doing an audio post but decided against it. Maybe later.

Anyways, unto my 100 questions:

100. Did you enjoy answering these questions?
Yeah. A little.

99. Random thought?

98. Heels or Flats?
Heels over flats but I have to be sensible.

97. Do you believe in love?
I believe in God. God is love. Hence, I believe in love

96. What do you do to ease stress?
I used to eat but now I just sleep or listen to music

95. What makes you angry?
It takes a lot to get me angry

94. Toyota or Honda? Mercedes

93. What is your dream car?
Don’t know? Rolls Royce Phantom?
I want a sleek car in white or black

92. Are you a jealous person?

91. Are you a bad person?
I’m a very good person

90. Girls: can you date someone younger? Boys: can you date someone older? Before, I’d have said an outright no but now, it depends

89. Are there any sexual acts that makes you uncomfortable?

88. Are there any causes you strongly believe in?
Fight against Domestic and Child Abuse. Cancer Awareness

87. Are looks important in a relationship?

86. Apart from the obvious ones, which two body parts are the most sensitive and responsive? What obvious ones? My ear and my cheeks are sensitive

85. Do you have any kinks we should know about?
None that concern you.

84. All of your life, your parents have taught you. What have you taught your parents?
I taught my mother how to use her iPad that someone bought for her. I taught my father everything there is to know about the computer and internet.

83. How many pairs of jean do you own?

82. What four things are you scared of?
Not making heaven, failure, not having children and

81. What are the 3 physical features you get complemented on a lot? My smile, my nails. Does my skin count?

80. Do you routinely spend money that you don’t have?

79. Do you regret living those intimate
experiences with that person?
What person? :s

78. Do you regret anything?
Yes. A lot of things

77. Do you read? Has any particular book influenced you or left a life-changing impact? I love to read. Nope, don’t think so

76. Do you read the Bible or Qur’an?

75. Would you follow your heart or your head?
My hea(d)rt? It depend on where they’re going.

74. Do you prefer to sleep together or alone?
I don’t know

73. Would you prefer sharing finances with your partner or keeping them separate? I’ve thought about this and I think the best is to have both.

72. Do you prefer friends of the opposite sex or same sex and why? I don’t know

71. Do you prefer talking to texting?
Most times, I prefer to text. Depends on who(m) I’m dealing with

70. Do you prefer reading books to watching movies?
Reading books.

69. Do you play any musical instrument? If yes, which?
Nah. But I wish I could play piano, guitar and violin.

68. Do you love massages?
Who doesn’t?

67. Do you live alone?
No. Not yet.

66. Do you prefer hot or cold drinks?
Cold. Even if I’m freezing. Except if it’s tea or something.

65. Coke or Pepsi?
Fanta or Teem

64. Boxers or Briefs?

63. Do you prefer a love marriage or an arranged marriage?
What is this? The victorian era?

62. Do you pray regularly?
God loves me either way. 😀

61. Do you own a car?
no. 😦 .I can’t even drive. 😦 😦

60. Do you need to know everything about someone’s past?
Not really. Except if I suspect serial killer tendencies.

59. Do you miss anyone?
Yes. A lot of people.

58. Do you make friends easy?

57. Do you think foreplay is important before sex?
What is foreplay? :s. I don’t know these things

56. Do you make a habit of saving money?

55. Do you love children?
Cute ones that don’t cry

54. Do you like your independence or do you want to have a big wedding, wife/husband, puppy and kids? Big wedding and all. Minus the puppy

53. Do you like watermelons?
No. Except the very very very red ones

52. Do you like to watch reruns of your favourite shows?

51. Do you like to try out new thing?
Yes. Except it involves jumping out of something. 30,000 feet above the ground.

50. Ever been on a plane?

49. Do you sing in the shower?
I don’t think I’ve ever

48. Would you like to have your boyfriend/ girlfriend in your school or class? School? Yes.
Class? Why? Are we conjoined?

47. Do you like to french kiss?
When fresh breath is involved.

46. Have you ever had a rebound?

45. What do you think about your ex? Nothing. I don’t have one

44. Do you like to flirt?

43. Have you fallen in love on a social networking site before? Maybe

42. Do you have sex on a first date?
Biko, why am I having sex?

41. Do you kiss on a first date?
I don’t know

40. Mention your twitter crush.
What is a twitter crush?

39. Do you like to cook?
Yes. Only if I don’t have to clean up

38. Do you like to budget? Or just more casual on finances?
I have Ijebu blood in me.

37. Do you like tattoos? If yes what kind/type?
Yes. If they’re on other people

36. Do you like the harmattan season or rainy season?

35. Do you like strawberries?
I don’t think I’ve ever eaten strawberries. But I like strawberry-flavored stuff

34. Do you like spicy food? And why?
Yes. Except when my stomach is unstable

33. Do you like spending more time alone or more time around people.. And why? Either way is cool

32. Do you like someone right now?
I like everyone

31.Your favorite device?
Does my camera count?

30. Do you like short or long hair on a guy?

29. Do you like school?
Most times, I do

28. Do you like reading books or comics?

27. Do you like playing any sport? If yes, name the sport.
Shey anything they show on ESPN is sport? So poker and pool.(Billiards)

26. Do you like pets? If yes, do you have any and name the pet? If No, why? I like animals when they are small and cute.

25. Do you like partying? Attending parties? Giving parties? Attending? Yes. Especially when there is food/drinks involved

24. Do you like Oranges?
In every way

23. What country do you like best?
Heaven I don’t know.

22. Do you like your name?
I love my name. It always shocks people. Bad side is that it doesn’t fit into a lot of forms

21. What are the color of your Eyes?
Brown. sometimes

20. What is the first thing that pops into your head when you wake up? Different things on different days

19. How many kids do you want? Minimun of 2. Maximum of 5. All before I’m 30.

18. Describe your boyfriend/girlfriend using only two words. Non-Existent

17. Favourite TV Shows?
Big Bang Theory, Hustle, White Collar, Suits, Newsroom, Drop Dead Diva, Two and A Half Men, Mad Men, Franklin and Bash, House. They’re plenty sha.

16. How often do you shave your body hair?
As often as the need arises.

15. What music do you listen to?
I’m a music hoe.

14. Do you have a favorite pair of socks or underwear?

13. What could you never go a day without?

12. Do you believe you meet people for a reason or by random chance?
I believe that everyone in your life is there for a reason. No matter how small. Maybe your link to something greater

11. How do you think we as people came to be?
I believe in that God created everybody and everything. The Chinese version is the worst

10. Do you have any secret dream or passion?

9.What do you most commonly dream about?
Marriage, my future

8. What do you do when you can’t sleep at night?
Use my phone, read

7. Who is your favourite member in your extended family?
It used to be my mum’s brother. and 2 of my dad’s brothers.

6. What do your close friends know about you that no other person knows? This is a funny question

5. What is your favourite thing to do in your alone time?
Read my bible, do devotion, sleep, meditate

4. How many younger siblings do you have?
Two. One boy and a girl. half-brother. I want another younger sibling tho

3. How many older siblings do you have?
Two boys. One’s a half brother

2. What day of the week were you born?
Not sure. Saturday or Sunday

1. What is your birth month?

I’m very tired after typing this.